i think you should skip the whole part where elena was possessed at least.
ughhhh god yes
nah i find the whole thing weird, though it’s not like i actually watch either lmao
ayyyy lol i’m such a shit, judging a show i’m so behind on. idk i’m just trying to make up my mind about whether i should catch up or just leave it tbh
catofthecanalls replied to your post “Why are you saying “wtf is this show trying to prove” on that gif? :)”
i think it’s referring more to like.. breaking up yk. if ur still in love with that person it’s unlikely you can be friends.
like i said, out of context, i don’t have a single clue about what’s happening (elena’s having wet dreams about stefan????? i don’t understand????? and i don’t think i want to?????) but still. i’m coming from a quite specific place in which people become friends first and then lovers so once you’re no longer together romantically anymore you can still be civil and of course separation hurts but to me if you were true friends you’ll eventually overcome that heartbreak
idk i don’t make any sense idek why i try also everything stefan says annoys me so just grrr no
i haven’t been watching tvd for a while now (the last episode i watched was the one with katherine still in elena’s body trying to stop her from coming forth yadda yadda yadda so it’s really been a while) so i’m completely lost when it comes to storylines but that quote by stefan about people only being able to be friends OR lovers sounds pretty much like bullshit to me no matter what context it’s inserted in
like?????????? are you fucking kidding me???? i don’t mean to offend anyone who agrees with that, to each their own, but seriously??????? are you really preaching that people can only furiously love each other and jump each other’s bones OR lean their heads on each other’s shoulders and have a laugh at funny youtube videos??? there’s nothing in between??? you just can’t hold hands with the person you love AND discuss your perspectives on life or idk talk shit about people you know?? all my romantic relationships (they’re not many but they happened) have emerged from friendship and i couldn’t disagree more with that quote. maybe that’s my limited experience talking but if you’re not friends with the person you love, then what’s the fucking point? how do you even manage to love them in the first place?
so idk sorry again if i’m not making any sense but neither is stefan to me, and that’s a reflex of what the writers are trying to say to their audience. if they make a character that’s considered “”“”good”“”” drop those fucking stupid “”“”words of wisdom”“”” and idk maybe have elena (THE MAIN CHARACTER JUST IN CASE!!!) follow his advice then i’m really concerned about what’s their idea of love and what they’re trying to instill in the viewers’ minds (after 4 seasons of awesome DE buildup INCLUDIND A VERY SOLID FRIENDSHIP BETWEEN THEM IN S3 AND NO ONE’S GONNA CONVINCE ME OTHERWISE IT’S THERE)
idk i have a huge feeling that i’m being really dumb sorry i’m just gonna go be angry at that gif